What is Intellectual Disability?
Intellectual disability (ID) is a general term for cognitive delays that are more pronounced than the average person.
Many distinct types of ID can be diagnosed, including autism spectrum disorder (ASD), attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and intellectual developmental disorder (IDD). These disabilities vary in intensity, effect, and severity.
Identity Development: Children with disabilities often have difficulty developing an identity separate from their disability because it is a visible difference. They may also have trouble understanding themselves as a person concerning the world around them.
People with intellectual disabilities are often overlooked in society. They may be neglected, abused, or exploited. Many people with intellectual disabilities have low employment rates and risk poverty.
What Causes Intellectual Disabilities?
Intellectual disability is a brain disorder that affects a person’s ability to learn and work. Several factors can cause intellectual disability. These include but are not limited to:
- Genetic mutations
- Environmental factors
- Infectious agents
- Injuries
- Other physical disorders, including those affecting the brain or the nervous system.
The Emotional & Social Impact of Being Disabled
When you are disabled, it is not just the physical limitations that can affect your life. There is emotional and social life impact as well. You may feel depressed, anxious, or socially isolated. This impact may lead to an increased risk of suicide. The emotional impact of being disabled can be significant and long-lasting. The disabled experience social and emotional isolation that is unlike any other. It is impossible to know what it feels like to be disabled if we cannot imagine how we would feel if we were in that situation. One way to understand the experience of being disabled is by being in someone else’s shoes, even if it’s just for an hour or two.
Navigating the Dating Scene as an Intellectually Disabled Individual
Dating is an arduous process for people with intellectual disabilities. They are often faced with difficulty communicating and understanding social cues that others take for granted. One of the critical barriers to dating for intellectually disabled individuals is the lack of awareness by the general population about the existence of this disability. As a result, many intellectually disabled people are seen as being physically or mentally inferior to their non-disabled peers, which can lead to rejection on dates. However, there are ways in which people with intellectual disabilities can overcome these difficulties so they can date. It is essential to know how to communicate better and empathize and have patience when dating someone with an intellectual disability. People with intellectual disabilities can overcome their difficulties to date by being more aware of how their disability may affect others. When you are aware of how your disability may affect others, you can better respect their feelings, as well as their point of view. Individuals with an intellectual disability can be proactive in increasing their chances of getting a date. There are three different approaches to dating: online dating, group activities, and social events. These are all viable alternatives that give the person with an intellectual disability more choices when finding a partner while still being inclusive and respectful of other people’s preferences.
Things You Should Know Before Dating Someone with Intellectual Disabilities
- A disability doesn’t define who someone is; their actions and behaviors define them.
- Mental and physical disabilities can be hidden, and it can be tough to tell what someone is struggling with until you get to know them better.
- People with an intellectual disability want to find love, too; they see themselves as regular people like everyone else.
- If you make fun of someone or their disability, they will feel hurt and rejected because it invalidates their feelings and experience.
- It’s essential to be open and honest about your feelings.
- It would help if you were patient and understanding.
- Some people with intellectual disabilities may need more time to process information and make decisions.
- Be patient and understand their needs, thoughts, and feelings.
- It’s essential to be open and honest about your feelings.
- It would help if you never made assumptions about what they want or don’t want to do. Ask them first!
- Listen to them, ask questions, try new things together!
How to Manage Intellectual Disabilities
It is important to note that intellectual disabilities (ID) and cognitive disabilities (CD) are often used interchangeably. The two terms can be used to describe various aspects of an individual’s disability, but the most precise way to think about the difference between ID and CD is in terms of IQ. Intellectual disabilities refer to people with IQs below 70, while people with cognitive disabilities have IQs above 70. People with ID cannot always understand what is happening around them; they might not communicate effectively. They may not do things independently, like dressing or feeding themselves. Cognitive disability might not manifest in these ways. For example, an individual can still function well enough on their own and may even be highly functioning enough that others rarely know there is something different.
How to Deal with Mental Health Issues as an Intellectually Disabled Individual
Sometimes mental health issues are not talked about enough. People often brush off their problems, tell themselves they are fine, or hide their problems altogether. The most common mental health problems that intellectually disabled individuals face are depression and anxiety. These are caused by the general public’s lack of awareness and understanding, making them feel isolated and misunderstood. Some ways that they have dealt with them include therapy, peer support groups, or self-advocacy organizations.
The Importance of Understanding and Empowering People with Intellectual Disabilities
The government in Australia is committed to ensuring people with disability receive opportunities to reach their potential through participating in the community and the workforce. The idea of goal setting is not always easy for intellectually disabled people, but they need to understand the importance of achieving their goals. Achieving their goals will lead to better employment opportunities and overall better quality of life. The conclusion is that people with intellectual disabilities are capable of just as much as everyone else. However, it’s essential to understand and empower them. They deserve the chance to be able to contribute their skills and passions.